Xica's Love Stories

1. They are unhappy with themselves

2. They are unhappy with the choices in their life, and that might include you, the man in their life

3. They have a need to be in control at all times, either because, they have experienced emotional pain in their lives, or they believe themselves to be superior in their way of thinking

4. They are concerned about being embarrassed  so they nag their mates to do certain things in public.

5. They can’t seem to shut up, so they talk constantly and nagging becomes a part of their dialog.

6. They feel inferior within, so they talk to cover it up.

7. They believe that if they provide constant guidance, their mate will appreciate them more

8. They believe you are going to leave them eventually, so they nag you, just to make sure you don’t disappoint them.

9. They love you and are concerned about your well being, but assume you aren’t smart enough to hand situations on your own. And in some cases, this may be true.

10. They love to hear themselves talk.

As found on the Xica Love Story site.  You may copy and reprint - please leave links in place.